Cyber Crime On Dating Site

Based on my personal experiences to follow one of dating site. Besides getting a lot of benefits due to meet with many people easily, also opens the possibility of the danger of crime on dating sites. I am an Asian woman through one of the dating sites to meet a foreign man from London. At the beginning of friendship all goes well, he's very good to me. At end, our conversation lead us to a more serious relationship. He said he would come to Indonesia to meet with me. He will stay in Indonesia for a month to get to know me and my family closer. He desired to directly marry me and take me to his country. I am an Asian woman who is very naive, I have no negative thoughts at all, I really believe this guy. Until in the end, to show the seriousness of his visit to Indonesia, he sent the details of the flight to my email. I further believe this guy. The next day she asked me if I really love him and are willing to marry him and go with him? Of course the replied is "yes I do." He said he afraid, he can’t get a Visa for me to London quickly through the legal process. Although, he'll be in Indonesia for a month and take care of everything including the Civil Records. He can’t bring me straight to his country. I asked if there was another way out for my Visa? He said to not worry, he had asked his closest friend who worked at the embassy. He will help us and help me to get a visa quickly. I requested to follow all instructions given by his friend who worked at the embassy via email. Starting from asking my personal data and wrote that I was willing to relocate to London. Until I received an email that told me to send some money for Visa administration fee of 375 US Dollars. My definition of that amount if in exchange the currency of Indonesian money is a very big number. Moreover, I myself did not come from a rich family. I asked him to help me to transfer this money but he said he can’thelp me even though he wanted to. But there was nothing he could do from there because the rules are so. He begged me not messing things up, and immediately send the money via western union. He said, I must not to worry about money problems, he will return it when he was in Indonesia. He asked me to get a loan in order to send money. He was forcing me to transfer this money. In fact a little upset when in a few days I do not send cash yet. I began to feel uncomfortable, why do I have to do this? I began to doubt this man. I start to check the flight details. I realized that all information provided are false. This guy was trying to deceive me. So since then I started looking for any information about cyber crimes. Apparently a lot of cases that occurred from these cases that I experienced through Human Trafficking. I just realized how naive I was. I realized following the required precision of dating sites to choose someone as our partner. We should not easily believe in the sweet promises. And do not ever want if someone is telling you to send money for any reason. Hopefully the information I provide is helpful. Keep the spirit with your dating site and be careful.